Hey Kisser! If you're gonna read this post,
it's better to pause Taylor Swift's Love Story up there, and play this song:
it's better to pause Taylor Swift's Love Story up there, and play this song:
Okay good, now read!
How to Be Kissable (Don't Laugh! This is for real!)
Steps
1. Have fresh breath. Begin by brushing and flossing your teeth twice daily. During the day, especially after meals, use breath mints or breath strips, also floss after brushing may help. Breath strips work better, especially if you've just ended a garlicky dinner or what not. Be careful about gum because you will have to get rid of it before kissing. Or keep it and once you are more comfortable, you might suggest a game where you and your partner try to trade pieces.
2. Make sure that your lips are well moisturized. You should also apply lip balm frequently (carry one in your pocket or purse). This will help keep your lips soft. Simply brush your lips with your tongue. Make sure it is not over powering though.
3. Don't forget to look after your skin. Use products with shea butter, it's better than most other skincare ingredients and it doesn't leave a greasy feel after use (who would want to kiss you if your skin shines like sweat?).
4. Make plenty of eye contact. This provides the intimate connection that is an invitation to kissing. If you have large glasses try taking them off, or getting contacts for the future. Some people absolutely hate it when your glasses start to interfere with the contact. Try taking them off before kissing though, since a hand gesture toward your glasses might be found unromantic.
5. Being comfortable makes you appear more relaxed and therefore more kissable. Make sure you are wearing comfortable clothes. And if you're a guy, most people like smooth hairless faces so don't forget to shave if you need to.
6. Make sure to look at your (future) partner's lips every once in a while. This connotes the idea of kissing and hopefully he/she will pick up the hint. If they do not look back at your lips, don't worry it's just not the best time in your relationship.
7. Ensure your mouth isn't carrying a river of fluid! Just before kissing - swallow discretely. As you move your tongue around your mouth(French) and use a very light sucking action (standard kiss), the glands on your tongue and in your mouth will produce more mucus. You don't want your lips dry but you certainly don't want to dribble in your partner's mouth either.
8. Smile and relax. When you are tense, your whole body will respond including your tongue and lips. Don't worry - they are probably as nervous as you are in either a first kiss or the first kiss of a new relationship.you can now be an expert first time round.
Tips
* When you notice your partner leaning towards you & looking you dead in the eye,he or she wants to kiss. If the environment is not conducive to a kiss, use the next opportunity.
* A surprise kiss is often quite memorable, but if you don't know if the person likes you as more than a friend, it can be a disaster. You should always have consent.
* When you kiss someone (especially if it is just a casual kiss) DO NOT pucker your lips (in other words, don't "smooch")! Say the word "peaches" silently to yourself- your lips will be in the perfect position. It also helps not to lick your lips; no one likes a messy, wet kiss.
* If you smoke or dip tobacco, quit! In addition to being bad for your health, smoking or dipping yellows your teeth and causes severe bad breath, which will keep others from even thinking about kissing you!
* Some people want to kiss in the earlier stages in a relationship. If you want to kiss, most likely the person you're with wants to kiss. Go for it!
* If you are a girl wear a light shade of lipstick or flavored lip gloss so it shows your partner you are up for a kiss.
* Guys, having a clean shaven face is best. A stubble can hurt the girl after a while from constant rubbing.
* Guys, chapstick or vaseline won't hurt
* Make your kiss last long, and if you want to remember it keep your position and keep following up with kisses. You don't want your kiss to be over in a second.
* Sometimes, while kissing its fun to run your fingers through your partner's hair vice versa for them. So it might be a turn-off if your hair is super stiff. Try to avoid heavy duty hair products if you think you'll be kissing that night!
* Set your limits, if all you want to do is kiss, make it clear, and don't ever go past your zone of comfort
* Make sure you don't have chapped lips, this could keep someone from kissing you. so put on some chapstick!
Warnings
* If you have severe bad breath that is not helped by brushing, flossing, etc., consult your dentist or doctor. Listerine might help so an extra 30 seconds will not hurt!
Things You'll Need
* A person who is open to kissing activities
* Breath mints (highly recommended)
* Lip mask (optional but works well, especially for easily chapped lips!)
* Lip balm (optional)
Now, I cant wait to see how kissable are you! Alrighty! HAHA! :)
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